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Every woman is like a time-zone. She is a nocturnal fragment of your journey. She brings you unflaggingly closer to the next night.Baudrillard, Jean
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Love Letter Candles
One of the candles has an excerpt of a love letter that I had written to the person the gift was for. The second candle has an excerpt of a love letter that was written to me from the person who I made the gift for. The third candle has a famous love poem or song. In this case the scripture “love is patient, love is kind…” All in fonts that reflected our personalities. I’m very proud of these. I made them and came up with the idea myself.
You will need:
- Three small glass tealight holders
- Clear vellum paper
- Inkjet printer
- Twine or other String
- Beads and Charms
- Scissors and a Glue Stick
Type out the paragraphs you want on each candle and print them out on plain paper to test how big or little the font needs to be or how much you can fit on each candle. This took a couple tries for me. Once you have the sizes right, print them out on a single sheet of vellum paper and cut them into three strips to fit around each candle.
I also had to play around with the ink settings on my printer. You have to find which “media type” works for you. For example “semi-gloss photo paper”, “matte photo paper”, etc. I have a canon 3 in 1 printer and “Other photo paper” was the setting that worked for mine. Do a “practice run” by printing out a single word on one sheet of vellum paper so you don’t waste a whole sheet. Then you have to let it dry for approximately 20 minutes, if it still smudges, then try a different setting. If you are inpatient, you can try a hair dryer to speed it up.
In the meantime I started working on wrapping the twine around the candles and adding beads/charms. Use a glue stick to put glue on the edges of the vellum paper and wrap them around the candles, be careful not to smudge the glass. Then wrap the twine and beads/charms around it. This may take some experimentation too. I realized the candle holders I used got gradually bigger at the top so they kept slipping down. I made the twine tighter and then pushed it up towards the top of it to stay.
Out of different tealights, I found the ones that sit in the little metal tins to be too dark and not allow as much light to shine through the glass. I ended up using light blue ones that sit in clear plastic tins. Definitely the favorite gift I’ve made so far. :)
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The very reason I write is so that I might not sleepwalk through my entire life.Zadie Smith (via pavorst)
(via marchingtheskies)
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The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it is not. It is an existential truth: only those people who are capable of being alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of the other person - without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other. They allow the other absolute freedom, because they know that if the other leaves, they will be as happy as they are now. Their happiness cannot be taken by the other, because it is not given by the other.Osho (via ancora-imparo)
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Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are. Let me learn from you, love you, bless you before you depart. Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow. Let me hold you while I may, for it may not always be so.Mary Jean Iron (via ancora-imparo)
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I am a work in progressAni Difranco “The Slant”
dressed in the fabric of a world unfolding
offering me intricate patterns of questions
rhythms that never come clean
and strengths that you still haven’t seen
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Sincere forgiveness isn’t colored with expectations that the other person apologize or change. Don’t worry whether or not they finally understand you. Love them and release them. Life feeds back truth to people in its own way and time.Sara Paddison
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Be careful what you set your heart upon, for it will surely be yours. - James Baldwin
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